If you want to sleep with another person then you're clearly not 100% in your current relationship. So why still be in it? Maybe some people feel that they get some sort of thrill out of it but if you want to sleep around then why are you in a relationship in the first place.
I guess I just really don't understand why anyone would want to hurt another person like that.
Although the thing that annoys me most is when you hear in the news about a famous couple and one of them cheated (usually the man, no offence) and then the next day you hear the girl is still with him. Why would you put yourself through that? Unless he genuinely only did it once with one other person then, personally, I wouldn't give them a second chance. If they've only done it once then ok maybe they made a mistake but to carry on with the relationship if he's cheated multiple times? I just don't think those kind of guys ever change.
Obviously the same applies to women too but you don't hear about women cheating so much. I guess it's cause we're more "emotional" or something.
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Not all cheaters do it just because they feel they can or some shit like that. I believe a lot of them do it out of insecurity because they are wrongly seeking reassurance from their partner and not getting it, so they turn to someone else given half the chance. And again, not everyone seeks reassurance in this way, but this is how some people 'deal' with it.
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